I would like to dedicate this blog post to my closest friend here. I treat her as my closest friend here because she is the only people can understand me and can listen to my sharing when I feel sad. She is sad and disappointed recently… Because she have too much admirers!
Main reason she have that large amount of admirers is because she is totally beautiful from inside and also outside (I think). She is different from any other girls that I met before. She is more mature than any other girl I can found in UTM. In short, she is great!
The way she treat people is really different. Most of the girls will just reject and avoid her admirers later to let her admirers understand that they are hopeless. But, she chose to treat them as friend although she rejected them. I think this is why her admirers don’t let her go, they misunderstand her message. Admirers think that they still have chance (I think) because she never avoided them as what usually a girl will do for this after rejecting admirer.
She said, “The more people like her, the more I feel (from girls) dislike. The more people care I (rejected admirers), the more I will feel blessed with many unhappy things.” I said to her, “More people like you, more people hate me (because I’m so close with her).” Sometimes I feel pressure to be her friend (because of what her admirers do to me is so childish), but I don’t mind. I just want a friend, who can understand me, can hear my sharing, jogging with me, and having lunch and dinner with me.
Since the first semester, I already bored with the thinking of close relationship between guy and girl must be an attached relationship. I was the closest friend (guy only) to Michelle, and everyone thought that I’m the lucky one when she declared her status. This shows that I’m not understand by others here. I say again, “I oppose that I will have relationship with any course mate. I just want a simple life here. I enjoyed lunch, dinner and also tea time with you all, I like to have badminton with you all during spare time, I want we strive for success together (no one should be leaved behind).”
I don’t understand why people like to make things complicated. She did mention that she want to study here, and not interested to having any relationship with any course mate already! I don’t know why her admirers still cannot respect her decision, if they really love her. I strongly recommend that her admirers should leave her some space, respect her decision (still can be friend ma) and treat her as friend (or else maybe will lose a friendship too).
To her admirers,
I hope that you all can understand her. Think in her shoes! What she feel if a guy that she rejected continue tackling her? Does she feel comfortable of this? (Please think thoroughly and be more mature).
True love is something last long, not puppy love. What you like about her? Her beauty? What if some day she grows older? Does she love you too (most important thing)? Do you understand her? Does she understand you as well? Can love last long if just have the love from your side? She will happy? (Please consider these too).
I have something to ask her admirers…
What you know about love? How can you say you love her if you don’t even understand her? Of course, you have your right to express your feeling to her. But, don’t you feel shame of not even respect what her decision is and you say you love her… If is like this, I think you just want to own her, don’t care about her feeling (can you win her heart like that?). You think she is a good in store? Of course, not!
True love cannot be forced. You wish to live together with the person you love, she also have her right to live together with the person she love (Please respect her right). Another thing, please don’t express your feeling of loving her to me! Express to her. Don’t show it to me through your eyes and actions. Show it to her and respect us!
Much appreciated and most thank you for your cooperation!
For me, I dare not to have relationship with course mate. I want my free life here. I’m afraid that I forced to face (any course mate), if we have quarrel for our relationship. So, my conclusion is no relationship for me here!
FROM,
CHEE KWEI YUNN
