I would like to dedicate this blog post to my closest friend here. I treat her as my closest friend here because she is the only people can understand me and can listen to my sharing when I feel sad. She is sad and disappointed recently… Because she have too much admirers!
Main reason she have that large amount of admirers is because she is totally beautiful from inside and also outside (I think). She is different from any other girls that I met before. She is more mature than any other girl I can found in UTM. In short, she is great!
The way she treat people is really different. Most of the girls will just reject and avoid her admirers later to let her admirers understand that they are hopeless. But, she chose to treat them as friend although she rejected them. I think this is why her admirers don’t let her go, they misunderstand her message. Admirers think that they still have chance (I think) because she never avoided them as what usually a girl will do for this after rejecting admirer.
She said, “The more people like her, the more I feel (from girls) dislike. The more people care I (rejected admirers), the more I will feel blessed with many unhappy things.” I said to her, “More people like you, more people hate me (because I’m so close with her).” Sometimes I feel pressure to be her friend (because of what her admirers do to me is so childish), but I don’t mind. I just want a friend, who can understand me, can hear my sharing, jogging with me, and having lunch and dinner with me.
Since the first semester, I already bored with the thinking of close relationship between guy and girl must be an attached relationship. I was the closest friend (guy only) to Michelle, and everyone thought that I’m the lucky one when she declared her status. This shows that I’m not understand by others here. I say again, “I oppose that I will have relationship with any course mate. I just want a simple life here. I enjoyed lunch, dinner and also tea time with you all, I like to have badminton with you all during spare time, I want we strive for success together (no one should be leaved behind).”
I don’t understand why people like to make things complicated. She did mention that she want to study here, and not interested to having any relationship with any course mate already! I don’t know why her admirers still cannot respect her decision, if they really love her. I strongly recommend that her admirers should leave her some space, respect her decision (still can be friend ma) and treat her as friend (or else maybe will lose a friendship too).
To her admirers,
I hope that you all can understand her. Think in her shoes! What she feel if a guy that she rejected continue tackling her? Does she feel comfortable of this? (Please think thoroughly and be more mature).
True love is something last long, not puppy love. What you like about her? Her beauty? What if some day she grows older? Does she love you too (most important thing)? Do you understand her? Does she understand you as well? Can love last long if just have the love from your side? She will happy? (Please consider these too).
I have something to ask her admirers…
What you know about love? How can you say you love her if you don’t even understand her? Of course, you have your right to express your feeling to her. But, don’t you feel shame of not even respect what her decision is and you say you love her… If is like this, I think you just want to own her, don’t care about her feeling (can you win her heart like that?). You think she is a good in store? Of course, not!
True love cannot be forced. You wish to live together with the person you love, she also have her right to live together with the person she love (Please respect her right). Another thing, please don’t express your feeling of loving her to me! Express to her. Don’t show it to me through your eyes and actions. Show it to her and respect us!
Much appreciated and most thank you for your cooperation!
For me, I dare not to have relationship with course mate. I want my free life here. I’m afraid that I forced to face (any course mate), if we have quarrel for our relationship. So, my conclusion is no relationship for me here!
FROM,
CHEE KWEI YUNN
8 comments:
haha....sorry to make u feel so uncomfortable...n thanks for the praising...haha...i got that good meh...nolo....too over i think....not great...but lousy....erm.....the others i think its not write for me...so let them reply u....haha....
yaya... i understand wat u write in the post...coz tat wat is i think tat u doin... nt to hv any relationship...juz oni dinner and spent time together hvin chit- chat but tat understandin oni appear when i hv mistreat u as bf for mich... then somethin happen to me and u at the same day... then hv some pillow talk wit u... i can get listen to wat u hv think...
so i think i can be the one bside u when u r sad or u wana find someone to talk u can find me oso.... u wana hv some frens to play can find me too,,,,
Haha.. Of course i'll find you for certain thing. But i'm choosy, i hope tell more to someone can understand my thinking..
Hi all!I am not a blogger,I just purposely created an account to give some response and opinion here (who cares??) haha…I will talk many craps down there,only further read on if you have spare time to spend :P
First at all,I have to admit and agree with you all that she looks quite pretty (not very pretty la,if not she already won the Miss Universe,hehe) But,I didn’t get attracted by her because of her face.Instead,I think that this girl is very arrogant (means quan or ba bai la),always show her cool cool and ‘’black black’’ face!
So,I told myself better not approach her…However,due to certain reasons,she and me gets to know each other and become friend…After this,I started to find out that she is not that cool as what she may looks like..Instead,she can be talkative and playful sometimes (depends on her mood la,not always one,her mood can fluctuate a lot within few hours,because she like to think negatively and blaming herself)
After being friends with her for several months,I think maybe I have a crush on her.Why only after several months?I also don’t know the actual reason...The only reason I can figure out for myself is maybe when I get to know she is from broken family…Maybe she is the first friend I knew in my life so far that are from broken family…I feel sorry for her and feel like want to give her warmness,so that time I actually confused whether am I so-called ‘’love’’ her or just pity her?After sometimes,I think it is not just simply pity towards her….
But,I didn’t confess to her as I knew I am not her cup of tea and I don’t want to lose her as friend…Try to imagine if she feel sorry for turning me down and start to avoid me,I won’t want those things to happen…It will be very embarrassing if we have common friends and always come out in gang…
So,to the GUYS out there that try to win her heart,please don’t give her any pressure…Instead of always telling her how much you love her,why don’t just sit back and relax and become close friends with her first?Instead of sending her SMSes bugging her how much you miss her,care for her…why don’t just send her some jokes when she feel down ,cheer her up when she sad?If you really care for her,you should think before you act whether your action will cause any negative effects to her…Since she already telling you all many people dislike her because of this…
And will you be willing to wait for her like 10 years or even more?(of coz without letting her know)and if your answer is YES,I hope you are not those watching too much romantic drama till you get affected…if your answer is NO,I will consider you as an honest and realistic people as 10 years isn’t a short time man! Well, personally I will not give it a YES for 100% sure nor will I choose NO…As we cannot predict the future things,how if within that waiting period, a girl that is much more prettier and better than her ask to be your girl friend?will you reject that girl just because you still wanna wait for her while knowing the chance is very slim?
You cannot blame her for so choosy…try to put yourself in her condition,since young,she already lost the family love…why?because her mum and dad cannot get along well with each others…and this solid example imply that if in the future,she also cannot get along well with her partner,she will end up like her mum.Besides herself have to suffer a lot(earning money while taking care children like her mummy did),the children need to bear the consequences too just like what she has been doing in her childhood time.Though I don’t know much about her childhood things,I can roughly guess that it won’t be a sweet memory.I give you example la,but not necessary is what happened to her…When she need to fill up a form,what should she fill for the ‘’father’’ column?and when other students making,drawing or decorating Father Day’s card ready to show it to their dad when back home,who should she show to even though she made the best cards among her classmates?
So,it is not difficult to understand when she becoming so choosy…She need a guy that she can believe and have faith in him to spend the rest of her life with him..She need time to observe,filter and do some selection rather just start a relation when guys come to her…So,to those admirer,build up your ‘’resume’’ so that maybe in the future she will consider you as the ‘’right candidates’’ rather than giving her pressure now which simply will not be effective.
To her closest friends in UTM,thanks for sharing her problems with her so she won’t become crazy…
Finally to Miss Kiong Yoon Sing,you don’t have to know who am I coz I am not going to expose my identity…Just remember to stay happy and smile everyday,coz your smile is sweet and charming,haha :)
I think this should be a post not a comment. Haha...
I agree with some of your opinion as Kiong's friend. For me, she is my closest friend here. So, i become the Kay Po ppl lo..
But, i think i'm not her closest here.. Dun understand wat she thinking sometime...
pyro...maybe i know who are u maybe i guessed wrongly...but thanks for the comment...n its really very long...
Whats your name? Cheeky?
You could summarize the entire post into 3 words.
'Cheeky loves Kiong'
who r u?niclim.....
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